I'm a mom of 5 and became a millionaire at 39. I drive a Honda Accord, order water when dining out, and don't pay for the kids' college.

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• Julia Myers achieved her objective of becoming a millionaire before reaching the age of 40.
• She continued to practice frugality even after achieving that financial milestone.
• She won't pay for her kids' college education, but she plans to cover their student loan debts.

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Before I was 40 years old. More than having a seven-figure bank account, I wanted financial independence, the security of being able to live without being tied to a specific job.

By the time he had built up his wealth, he didn't have the health to enjoy it. I didn't want the same thing to happen to me.

After I lost the sight in my right eye due to my retina detaching - as a hospital executive - "no one wants a one-eyed pharmacist." Considering my financial situation, I was able to retire comfortably from that job at 38. I continued to invest and build wealth, and a year later, I became a millionaire.

We opt out of ordering drinks at restaurants but have traveled abroad.

This path, which helped me become a millionaire, involved getting out of or minimizing consumer debt and starting to invest early on. I also made the unconventional choice of investing a portion of my student loans while keeping my living costs low. I wouldn't advise that approach for others, but it ended up working for me.

We have a 2016 Honda Accord. In our household, eating at restaurants is not a regular occurrence, and when we do dine out, we typically forgo ordering drinks like soda or alcohol since those things aren't a priority for us. As a result, we don't allocate a significant portion of our budget towards these expenses.

For us, travel including trips abroad is a big deal. We really enjoy traveling internationally as a family.

A trip to the DMV really drove home the reality that I'm not always in control of my kid's expectations.

My kids are between the ages of 8 and 20. My husband and I helped the two oldest ones buy their own cars by matching the savings they managed to accumulate. My eldest got a 2008 Nissan Altima for her first car. She was beaming with pride after researching the car and negotiating the sale herself, and I felt like I was teaching her a very important life lesson in the process.

After arriving at the DMV to register the car, my daughter looked around and asked, "Where's the express lane?" Given that our family prioritizes experiencing things, we're always happy to pay for conveniences like TSA Pre-Check to skip the wait. That was a moment of realization for me. No matter how hard I try to be intentional in raising my kids, they'll only know what they're used to.

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My eldest, 18, and 19, have left our home because it's essential for them to become self-sufficient. There are certain skills that only come from living on one's own.

When our kids were preparing to leave home, my husband and I asked them to create a personal budget. After they presented their budget to us, we provided them with a one-time assistance of $1,500 to aid in their financial transition. After that, we allowed them to manage their finances independently with no further support.

We're not paying the full cost of college up front, but we will offer financial assistance through loans.

My parents guaranteed that I would have access to food and a stable place to live. In keeping with their promise, they paid my living expenses while I was in college, and I paid for my tuition. As a result, I left school with minimal debt and a degree in pharmacy that led to a well-paying career, which has been a major factor in my current financial stability.

I've taken a different approach with my kids, and we're not financing their college education outright. Nevertheless, we still have a plan in place to support them. Upon their graduation, we'll either assume responsibility for repaying their student loans or assist with a down payment on a house.

We don't have a fixed budget for these kinds of decisions, including financial decisions related to the kids. I don't think parenting always has to be perfectly even to be fair. If one of the kids decides to pursue a graduate degree, we would likely give them more financial support than a child who chooses a lower-cost educational path.

We're leaving a inheritance for the kids, but they'll need to donate half of it.

We constantly remind our kids that the money we're spending on them now - think of the international trips we're taking - is essentially coming out of their inheritance. That being said, our plan is still to leave them with financial support after we're gone.

Each child will have to donate half of their inheritance to a charity that they select. This is one way in which I'm encouraging them to find their own sense of purpose, separate from me.

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